Bothered Blog
Tracing the literary and cultural evolution of the vampire from night terror to antihero of our darkest, most erotic fantasies.
How can smut help us feel aroused again? Sexologist Chloé helps us unpack desire, trauma and the nervous system.
Burlesque performers unpack how burlesque subverts patriarchal norms about what is sexy and who gets to take up space.
Two performers share what grape culture means, how we can heal, and how comedy can play a role in that process.
A conversation on how sex education and smut shape our understanding of desire.
Beloved MM romance authors Lucy Lennox and Clare London discuss why readers love the genre and how it has evolved in the last decade.
Our CEO unpacks the lifelong experience of women being a punchline.
An author's take on why fantasizing matters and why highlighting queer fantasies is especially important.
What's behind the Heated Rivalry craze, and what it means for queer stories and romance.
What actually makes porn ethical, normalizing sex work, and understanding our fetishes to move beyond shame.
What non-monogamy actually means, the history of monogamy and women as property, and the perfect smutty story.
Changes to federal sex ed funding will increase teen pregnancies and widen gender inequality by putting girls at greater risk of bearing the cost.
From sympathetic vampires to boundary-pushing erotica, Anne Rice helped redefine who gets to fantasize, and why it matters.
A roundup of our favorite queer stories to celebrate Pride month.
Recapping what makes short erotic fiction actually good, why curation matters, and stories as a tool for exploration.
A conversation about why romance is subversive, how pleasure is an act of resistance, and why representation matters in story telling.
The why behind Bothered Stories: celebrating pleasure, craft, and diverse voices.
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